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September 02, 2005

Just because she fat doesn't mean she's angry

My question isn't really about
fitness, but I know this woman
who is overweight. I try desperately to be nice to her and treat her as an equal. But I can't understand why she is angry every time I see her, I find myself avoiding her lately because of her attitude what is one to do? Even though
I can't help her.

Answer: There are some people out there that are not happy with living in their own skin. Many fat woman are that way because of some external reason that manifests itself into malfeasance. She hates her life maybe she’s going through a divorce or her husband cheats on her because she is fat, maybe her children are drug addicts or maybe she just hates her job. I don’t necessarily believe this anger comes from being overweight I think their really are outside forces driving this behavior. One thing that I do every time a situation like this arises I suggest confront in a semi-subtle way why she seems so angry. Or another thing I always do is invite them out for a drink after work get them liquored up and they usually spill the beans why they have so much anger and hate. I hope this helps.

Posted by Rocco at 07:18 PM | Comments (2)